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He Who Leads

A Three Part Leadership Intensive Series

Three Transformational 2-Day Experiences | June - November 2026 Novotel Auckland Airport | Accommodation Included

A three-part professional leadership reset for senior leaders, CEOs, founders, executives and business owners navigating complex leadership loads.

This is not entry level leadership work. This is for those who have already built capacity, who know how to lead functionally and are now seeking depth, sustainability and clarity under pressure.
He Who Leads is a bold, three-part series of two-day intensives for men who are ready to lead with depth, strength and clarity under pressure, in relationship and through change.
Each intensive is a complete experience on its own. Attend one, or commit to all three to transform how you lead in every area of life. While core frameworks will be led by Melanie, select retreats may include additional facilitators to deepen the space.
Does this sound familiar? You are carrying what most people don't see:
  • Business growth.
  • Strategic decisions.
  • People and culture dynamics.
  • Financial responsibility.
  • Stakeholder pressure.
  • Family commitments.
The reality is as your leadership expands, so does the complexity you are holding. Not just operationally, but personally. This isn’t about skills. This is about capacity. Leadership strain isn’t always obvious. It shows up as:
  • The slow build of decision fatigue
  • The constant balancing act between work and home
  • Quiet withdrawal or rising frustration under pressure
  • A sense that you are always 'on' but rarely fully present.
You have simply outgrown traditional leadership development.

What is covered in this series?

Across three transformative 2 day intensives, you will unpack the hidden patterns, nervous system load, and structural blind spots that quietly erode leadership performance over time and learn how to lead with presence, rhythm, and strength across every domain of life.

Part 1 | Leading Under Pressure

The Pattern Quadrant | Sun 21 - Mon 22 June 2026
When pressure rises, so do our patterns.Learn to recognise how over-functioning, control, detachment or withdrawal show up in yourself and others — and how they impact relationships, team culture, and performance.Gain a practical framework to shift these dynamics in real time, whether you're in the boardroom, navigating conflict, or leading at home.

Part 2 | Leadership Rhythm & Capacity Management

The Flow Circle | Sun 30 - Mon 31 August 2026
Leadership fatigue rarely comes from failure, it comes from stacking overload. More responsibility. More people. More decisions. More complexity.
This intensive focuses on rhythm, how to build a sustainable performance model that protects your nervous system, energy, and leadership clarity as pressure increases.
Walk away with a system for sustainable capacity, rooted in nervous system regulation and grounded executive rhythm.

Part 3 | Leading Complex Systems

The Unity Triangle | Sun 1 - Mon 2 November 2026
At this level, leadership is no longer about tasks, it is about holding complexity. From teams and partnerships to business models and markets, you will learn how to architect leadership systems that scale sustainably. Design structures that hold people, performance and wellbeing, while protecting your own leadership longevity.

Attend One. Attend All.

Each two-day intensive is a complete experience.Choose based on your current leadership needs, or complete the full series for a complete reset across business, relationships and life.
Designed for leaders. Protected time.
Each intensive is held Sunday-Monday to minimise disruption to your work week while providing the space you need to step back, reset and refocus.
All intensives are held at Novotel Auckland Airport with accommodation included for ease, presence, and full immersion. Fly in Sunday morning, settle in and leave Monday evening with clarity, tools, and a reset you will feel immediately, in your leadership, your work and your life.
This series is for:
  • CEOs, founders and business owners leading growth while managing personal strain
  • Executives responsible for people, culture, and financial performance
  • Senior leaders navigating high-stakes complexity
  • Men balancing expanding business leadership with personal and family roles
You will walk away with:
  • A deep reset of personal leadership defaults
  • Systems to sustain energy and presence under pressure
  • Practical tools to manage complexity and expansion
  • Nervous-system led leadership rhythm
  • Tools for long-game leadership clarity and containment

The Professional Development Invitation

This is advanced executive leadership integration, built for those ready to lead sustainably without sacrificing self, family, or future.

2025 Launch Pricing

Available Until 30 September 2025

Book before 30 September 2025 to access the special launch rate of $1,900 per intensive (normally $2,150), or $5,250 for the full 3-part series (save $600+). After this date, standard pricing will apply.

Pricing Summary

Booking Option
Standard Price
2025 Launch Rate
Any Single Intensive
$2,150
$1,900
Full Series (All 3)
$5,850
$5,250 (save $600)

Ready to Book?

You can register for any single intensive, or commit to all three at a discounted rate.Places are limited, and accommodation is included in every booking.

Book an Individual Intensive

Choose the one most aligned with your current leadership needs. Launch rate of $1,900 is available until 30 September 2025. Standard pricing after 30 September: $2,150.

Part 1 | The Pattern Quadrant | 24–25 January 2026Part 2 | The Flow Circle | 23–24 May 2026Part 3 | The Unity Triangle | 19–20 September 2026
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Book the Full 3-Part Series

Commit to your full leadership reset and save $600.
Full Series Package – $5,250 (normally $5,850)Includes:- All three Intensives - Accommodation at Novotel Auckland- Priority access and bonuses
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The Rhythm & Structure - He Who Leads

Sunday 9:30AM – Monday 4:00PM
Novotel Auckland Airport | Accommodation & all meals included
This format is designed for men who want the depth, but not the drag a powerful reset without needing to disappear for a week.
Sunday opens with clarity, moving straight into practical frameworks and application. You’ll explore what drives performance strain, unpack personal leadership patterns, and work through real scenarios in a high-trust setting. You’ll be challenged, supported, and resourced, with time to reflect and tools you can immediately use.
Sunday evening brings a shared meal, personal downtime or relaxed conversation, no forced networking or oversharing, just space to land the day and reset your system.
Monday goes deeper, bringing structure to what you have learned, with frameworks for how to lead with rhythm, containment and strength across the complexity you hold. You’ll walk out clear, steady and equipped for work, life and everything in between.
What is Included- One night of accommodation in a quality venue (Airport-based for ease)- All meals included and designed to support energy and clarity- Printed materials and reflection tools to take away and apply- A calm, professionally held space with real-world leaders who get it.

Neuroscience-informed frameworks to bring out the best in how we think, lead, & grow.

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